Why?
Perhaps the purpose of the question is, in fact, the question itself.
Death at any point along life's timeline forces individuals to pause and consider their
own mortality. The dimension of that consideration - the question of why - expands greatly
when the lives that are lost are young people, whose boundless potential for doing good
now seemingly will go unfulfilled.
Although I did not know her personally, Liz
Koenigsknecht was by all accounts of her many friends and acquaintances a
loving and caring person. She enjoyed life - knew the meaning of teamwork as evidenced by
her aptitude on the softball diamond; took pleasure from giving of herself to others,
especially young children; brought smiles and laughter to her family.
In her brief 18 months, little Mackenzie Endres
had only just begun to experience the joys of life - but even in that short time span, she
certainly left indelible fingerprints on the hearts and minds of family and friends.
In life, each touched and enriched the people they knew and came in contact with. In
death, Liz and Mackenzie touched us all.
And therein lies a partial answer to "why."
A good friend provided the essence of the explanation last Thursday night while we were
standing outside the Paine-Gillam-Scott Museum after a meeting, watching across the
Courthouse parking lot as people milled around St. Joseph Church following the conclusion
of the Vigil Service for Liz.
"Each generation has its own time of sorrow," she said. "For us, it was
Jack Wyrick. Here was this good and decent person, looking forward to college - and all of
sudden, he was gone. Why?"
As was the case then in 1959 - or a decade later in 1967-71 when my generation endured
the pain of losing Brent Law, Duane Downing, Richard Randolph and others in Vietnam -
framing the question helps us define who we are and who we will become.
Death is a necessary part of life - sorrow is intertwined with joy.
When Brent was killed in Vietnam, I recall quite vividly copying down a favorite
passage from "The Prophet" and taking it along with yellow roses to his parents,
Bob and Lillian Law. A portion of 'On Joy and Sorrow' seems equally appropriate today.
"Your joy is your sorrow unmasked
And how else can it be? The deeper that
sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.
"Is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with
knives?
"When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that
which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth
you are weeping for that which has been your delight."
It's a sad, hard burden to bear - but it is the truth, and it is necessary.
To the families of these young people, we extend our heartfelt sympathy. You are not
alone.
It's difficult now, as an emotional week draws to a close, to reflect back and conjure
up the perfect images of a weekend trip to the Upper Peninsula. One of the greatest
blessings of my life has been various opportunities to explore this magnificent part of
Michigan - and, in particular the Keweenaw Peninsula.
The Copper Country is utterly unique to itself - I absolutely believe that there is no
other place on earth quite like this land with its rocky cliffs, steeply wooded hills, and
the awesome majesty of Lake Superior that surrounds its three sides.
The original plan for this column was a rather light-hearted look at the fun
experiences I had with my hosts, Joe and Doris Chaudier, who are the parents of a
daughter-in-law, Karrie.
Suffice to say that in a short 54-hour time span, we managed to hit all the 'must'
stops - various eateries serving pasties and fresh whitefish, and a veggie pizza from
Marie's Deli in Houghton; Trenary Toast; obligatory stop at the Monk's Jampot for baked
goods, and purchase of thimbleberry jam from the Jam Lady in Eagle River; and frozen
custard cones at a little drive-in near L'anse.
It's a place I'd never been before, however, that provides the most lasting - and
peaceful - picture from this particular trip: the Falls River. Sparkling, clean water
cascades over the rocks on the unspoiled river that runs past the Chaudier cabin - the
rush of the water creating a melody of music guaranteed to soothe any troubled soul.
A joyful experience, and memory, to latch onto and hold close.