Reflections on the life of a 'good person,' Irene Witt
In discussing the idea for this particular column with a friend, her observations of
watching people go about their daily routines while she was waiting to pick up children or
grandchildren from school, work, or wherever were particularly striking.
"So many people all around me are just doing what they need to be doing. They are
not loitering; they all have a purpose; they are just doing what they are supposed to be
doing. That is how society functions. That is how good things get done."
How true.
All too often we're eager to recognize and honor individuals who do 'big' things - make
what are viewed as major contributions to our communities through their work with multiple
organizations or on specific projects.
Such leaders clearly play an important and vital role in our present and future
well-being. We need them.
Equally important are all those other people - the ones who know their purpose and go
about doing it on a daily basis. That's where most of us fit into the community picture.
It's most definitely the spot where a wonderful lady who passed away recently felt most
comfortable. In that light, Irene Witt
stands as a representative for the many others who work, serve, and make sure "good
things get done."
Actually, she stands well above
many of us; but she would never, ever have believed that. While
most people make an honest effort to 'be good,' there are some,
like Irene, who simply 'are good.'
It's impossible to conceive of Irene saying a bad word about anybody, or of her not
being eager to provide help to a friend in need - or to a stranger. Her life was truly one
of service to her family, church, friends and neighbors.
It was no surprise at all to me that her church home, St. Peter Lutheran in Riley, was
filled to overflowing for the funeral service. She had touched the lives of so many people
in her brief 69 years here, everyone wanted to touch her back one last time - at least in
this earthly realm.
We all needed to draw just a bit more strength from her character - something to hold
on to in times ahead when the physical presence of Irene can't offer consoling words, make
and serve bountiful meals, or provide a helping hand.
She does live on, of course, in the form of her family: Lawrence, whose love of
conversation and people made him a fitting complement to his wife; their children, Mark
Witt, Joann Webster, Jane Carpenter, and Julie Witt, many grandchildren - and an adorable
great-grandson who couldn't quite understand at the funeral home why great-grandma
"didnt wake up."
Someday he will realize that Irene is more awake than ever. She's continuing to do what
she's supposed to - simple acts of service that make "good things get done."
What a wonderful example for all of us to follow. |